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Is It Normal to Hurt Here? | Postpartum Pain and Recovery

Bringing life into the world is extraordinary, but postpartum recovery often brings unexpected aches and pains. Most are part of healing. At Nyssa, we help you understand what’s happening and how to soothe it with supportive tools for real relief.

A Guide to Postpartum Discomfort and Where It Shows Up

 

Bringing a baby into the world is nothing short of extraordinary. But after the rush of delivery, you may find yourself asking a question most new parents whisper to their Google search bar at 2 a.m.: “Is it normal to hurt here?”

 

The short answer? Probably, yes. Postpartum discomfort is common and completely valid. Your body has just gone through an intense physical event. Pain or tenderness in certain areas doesn’t mean something’s wrong; it means your body is working hard to heal.

 

At Nyssa, we believe every parent deserves to understand their feelings, why they’re happening, and how to find relief. Below, we’ve created a guide to the most common places postpartum discomfort shows up, plus tools and tips to help you heal smarter, not just tougher.

 


 

 

Is It Normal To Hurt There? Where Postpartum Pain Happens

And why you might be feeling it

 

Here’s a visual breakdown of the areas where discomfort is most common after childbirth:

 

 

1. The Perineum

 

What you might feel:

 

  • Burning, stinging, or throbbing after tearing, stitches, or swelling

  • Pressure when sitting or standing for long periods

  • Sharp discomfort during bowel movements

Why it happens:

 

The perineum stretches significantly during vaginal birth. Even without tearing, the tissue experiences trauma. It’s completely normal to have tenderness for days or even weeks.

 

How to soothe it:

 

  • Cold therapy is your best friend in the early days to reduce swelling and numb pain.

  • Warm therapy later on can promote healing and comfort.

Slip Nyssa’s Between Legs Perineal Ice/Heat Therapy Pack into the built-in pocket of our FourthWear® Postpartum Recovery Underwear for secure, hands-free relief. The reusable design keeps you comfortable long after the hospital freebies run out.

 

 

2. The Uterus and Lower Belly

 

What you might feel:

 

  • Cramping (sometimes called “afterpains”)

  • Tenderness near a C-section incision

  • A pulling or heavy sensation in your lower belly

Why it happens:

 

Your uterus is shrinking back down to pre-pregnancy size, a process called involution. This can cause intense cramps, especially while breastfeeding. If you had a C-section, your incision area will also need time to heal.

 

How to soothe it:

 

  • Use gentle compression from high-waisted recovery underwear (like Nyssa Fourthwear Postpartum Recovery Underwear!) to feel supported.

  • Alternate between heat for cramping and cold for incision swelling or soreness.

Our Uterine Reusable Ice/Heat Therapy Pack is shaped to contour perfectly across your lower belly or back, so you can comfortably manage both types of discomfort.

 

 

3. Breasts & Chest

 

What you might feel:

 

  • Aching, fullness, or heaviness (especially when milk comes in)

  • Sharp, hot pain from clogged ducts or mastitis

  • Soreness from frequent nursing or pumping

Why it happens:

 

Your body is learning how to make milk, and your baby is learning how to feed. Engorgement is common, and without proper management, it can lead to blocked ducts or infection.

 

How to soothe it:

 

  • Cold therapy can reduce swelling and tenderness between feeds.

  • Warm therapy before feeding can help milk flow and ease letdown.

Nyssa’s Breast & Chest Ice/Heat Packs slide discreetly into our Nyssa Fourthwear Bralette (or any other bra for that matter!) for soothing, hands-free care that works around the clock.

 

 

4. The Tailbone & Sitting Muscles

 

What you might feel:

 

  • Deep ache when sitting or getting up

  • Sharp pain when shifting positions

  • Numbness or tingling near your tailbone

Why it happens:

 

The pressure of labor can bruise or even fracture the tailbone. Sitting muscles also get sore from both delivery and all the new sitting you’ll do while feeding or holding your baby.

 

How to soothe it:

 

5. Lower Back & Hips

 

What you might feel:

 

  • Stiffness, soreness, or aching

  • Pain that worsens with lifting or carrying baby

  • Discomfort after long periods of standing or sitting

Why it happens:

 

Pregnancy hormones loosen joints and ligaments, which can leave your back and hips unstable after birth. Add in constant bending, lifting, and rocking, and you’ve got a recipe for soreness.

 

How to soothe it:

 

  • Apply heat therapy to relax tense muscles.

  • Support your posture with a nursing pillow or chair with good back support.

  • Gentle stretches or short walks (as cleared by your provider) can help restore mobility.

The reusable Uterine Therapy Pack isn’t just for your belly, flip it around for targeted lower-back relief, too.

 

When to Call Your Provider

 

While most postpartum discomfort is expected, trust your instincts.
Contact your healthcare provider if you experience:

 

  • Fever or chills

  • Severe, worsening pain that doesn’t improve with rest

  • Sudden swelling, redness, or foul-smelling discharge

  • Heavy bleeding (soaking more than one pad an hour)

  • Chest pain or difficulty breathing

These could signal complications that need prompt attention.

 


 

You Deserve Relief That Lasts Longer Than the Hospital Freebies

 

 

Your postpartum body has done something incredible, and it deserves the absolute best care that’s equally incredible. 

 

Instead of juggling flimsy, one-time-use packs and awkward mesh underwear, Nyssa products are designed by moms, for moms to make healing easier:

 

 

For a complete look at Nyssa vs. Hospital freebies, see here.

Healing isn’t about “toughing it out.” It’s about giving your body the tools to recover fully, comfortably, and confidently, so you can focus on what matters most: you and your baby.

 

Ready to support every stage of recovery? Explore Nyssa’s Postpartum Recovery Collection and give yourself the care you truly deserve.

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